Daniel James Flahavan
March 23, 1969-April 13, 2025
Mountain View, California

Dan Flahavan, beloved husband of Christy and father of Haley and Tenley, passed away on April 13th at the age of 56.  Dan lived a life marked by purpose, passion, and deep connection with those around him.  His warm presence and magical laugh illuminated every space he entered. 

Born and raised in the Bay Area, Dan’s passion for helping others was evident in all facets of his life.  Dan took tremendous pride in his 32-year career as an Athletic Director and physical education teacher at Corte Madera School in Portola Valley. Dan was constantly developing his program to inspire a love of movement in all students. He taught with intention and a strong belief in the importance of a positive attitude, growth mindset, teamwork and humor. To enrich his teaching career, Dan established Panthers Camp in 1995, with the mission of “building confident movers who inspire others”. Dan found tremendous joy at Panthers Camp because it allowed him to combine his favorite things - mentoring students and being with his family.  Working alongside Dan at camp was the highlight of summer for his wife and daughters. Dan's leadership extended beyond the classroom as a courageous advocate for fellow teachers.  Dan demonstrated integrity and tenacity as the head of the PVSD teachers bargaining team, most recently establishing Portola Valley School District as a leader in fair compensation for teachers.  He led with an unwavering vision of world class education for all students.  

Dan brought enthusiasm, integrity and a competitive spirit to every team he coached, not just at work but also for his daughters. He was their greatest fan and built his schedule around them - rarely missing an opportunity to coach or cheer them on in any endeavor.  Off the field, he could be found playing tennis, cycling, running in the foothills, and cheering for the Oregon Ducks. His steadfast faith in God shaped his life and relationships and he absolutely loved the life he built with his family.  

Dan was deeply loved by his family, dear friends and colleagues.  He is survived by his wife, Christy and their daughters, Haley and Tenley, who were the center of his world. He is also survived by his mother Rose; brother Tom (wife, Donnie); sister Carolyn Schlaefer (husband, Mike), nephew Daniel; sister-in-law Jennifer, nephews Michael and Kevin; mother-in-law Nancy Brown; brother-in-law Dan Brown (wife, Noel), and nieces Kennedy, Campbell, and Piper. Dan was preceded in death by his father, Tom, brother, John, sister Julie and father-in-law, Hal. 

Dan’s life will be honored and celebrated on June 20th, 1:30 pm at Menlo Church, 950 Santa Cruz Avenue, Menlo Park. 

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